“The son answered, ‘No, I won’t go,’ but later he changed his mind and went anyway.” — Matthew 21:29 (NLT)
Devotion
Many of us have learned that the right answer given first is what matters. But Jesus’ answer wasn’t finished when his mouth stopped moving.
The Greek word behind “changed his mind” is metamelomai. It comes from two roots: meta meaning change or after, and melomai meaning to care, to be concerned. Together it means to come to care differently about something after the fact. Something came to matter to him differently. His feelings shifted first and then his feet followed.
The text doesn’t tell us what caused it. Maybe he walked past the vineyard. Maybe he thought of his father. Maybe something simply broke open in him on the way. But whatever it was, it was real.
The leaders lost their ability to change their answer. Their certainty had become unamendable. They saw the miracles and felt indignation. They heard the children’s worship and felt offence. Every encounter with Jesus that could have broken them open instead made them harder.
If you have said no to God once, recently, or for years, your first answer was never filed as final. The door He opened for corrupt tax collectors and prostitutes is open for whatever you said the first time. His question is still being asked. He is still in the room.
Reflection
Is there a no you said to God — a calling, a surrender, a step of obedience — that you have assumed is now permanent? What would it mean to let that answer stay open?
Where have you felt your heart softening toward something God has been asking? What would it look like to let your feet follow that feeling?
Prayer
Lord, let my heart be moldable by You. Sometimes I don’t get the first answer right and You continue to give me room to learn, grow, and change. Let my feet follow what You’re opening in my heart. Amen.